Well, I've done Blue/Orange (love that script, btw!) and we cheated and had the actor light-up very briefly and then had another character stub it right out. We also kept it to just the one (I can't remember off-hand if the script calls for more).
Depending on where you are located, this could still be a violation of the fire code. Some cities/states say absolutely no fire/incendiary devices at all without proper permits and fire marshals on site (this is particularly true on the east coast of the US because of the night club fire).
If you live some where that the fire codes are not as strict, you could do this, or light a match, pretend to light the cigarette, and then drop the match in a glass of water. Other ideas include using a regular disposible lighter with no fluid, using the strike on box only matches and then "strike" them on anything else (table, other side of match book, etc) so you have the motion of lighting it but no actual flame. Along those same lines you can take a book of matches, cut the heads off, and just have the motion of striking the match on the book with nothing to ignite. I have also seen once some clever slight of hand using a very small orange, battery LED light that looked like a lighter that the actor palmed and turned on while cupping his hand around the cigarette and then turned off as he removed his hand.
Just my opinion, but I feel like most audiences now will go along with what you commit to, meaning that if your actors commit to looking like they are lighting a cigarette, and they have a fake puffy cigarette, the audience with take the journey with them and not question where the fire came from. Also, in that small of a space, more people would be distracted by actual smoking than will be distracted by the lack of real flame.
:)SSM