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Stage Management: Plays & Musicals / Re: PEOPLE: HELP! The director is taking over my job... :S
« on: Dec 09, 2011, 06:53 pm »The show I'm SMing currently is being directed by the vice president of the board of directors. I thought things would get better once we opened and they haven't. As much as I hate to admit, I am just letting him do it. He and I have had at least three professional conversations about overstepping (one that included our producer) and they didn't help. He's an actor in the next show I'm the SM on and I want to keep a semi professional relationship with him for the next production.
I don’t see this as something you should “hate to admit.” Look at it as a fine example of flexibility. The stage manager should be the ultimate collaborator, and especially in non-union settings, this collaboration may entail letting other people do things that you see as your job. Because we want to be the best stage managers we can be, it’s natural to worry about things you feel you could do better than the director. One thing I tend to think about is how permeable the boundaries between our two jobs really are, and there are a whole range of ways for tasks to be divided up effectively.
I would maybe try to look at the director’s perspective as well, that he is overstepping because it’s easier than explaining what he wants done. Maybe he’s had bad experiences with SMs in the past and is worried about giving up control. If you are able to be supportive, and help in whatever ways he will accept, you may find this builds trust between you and he will be more open to sharing the load with you in the future.