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« on: May 05, 2009, 01:29 pm »
Dannysabenada, please don't take what I am about to say the wrong way. I agree with much of what has been said above. Taking a job only to leave it is not a good idea. And only you know whether you can put the past aside and work with this director again and maintain a civil working relationship.
Here is my comment and yes I have made a few assumptions. Based on your profile, you mention you are only 16. You seem like a very mature and responsible young stage manager based on your posting. And getting this kind of experience at a young age is setting the stage for a nice career. However, you are still very young. I am assuming that this director is an adult and a paid person at the school and in their eyes you are still a high schooler. Yes, that stinks, but facts are facts. In this economy, money gets cut left and right, right out from underneath you, even in the professional world. Yes, it seems unfair that she did not include you when she wasn't going to use your part of the design, however in this kind of school setting, there are still lines between adults and students, whether or not you are paid or volunteering, and there are many decisions that you may not be involved in for this very reason. It seems that this has been a really good learning experience on how to work as a team, how to keep personal feelings aside for the good of the production, and how to learn to work with difficult people. This is something you will end up dealing with more often than not. Now can you turn what has happened from a negative to a positive to improve things for the future?
Good luck with your decision. Do what is right for you. When you are having to give so much, being unhappy at your job is not beneficial for you or the production.