Based on how you answered those questions I think you should look into Stephens. I transferred here into the stage management program 2.5 year ago. It is structured as a 3 year 2 summer program so you are going to school almost year round (with generous breaks). It is a private woman's college, but that means that the sm program is wide open. I was the only 100% SM for my year and am graduating with 9 SM credits and 3 ASM credits (one of those was an internship I did during my first summer after the school program ended). On top of that I have numerous other credits in design and backstage work.
For class you are required to take 2 SM courses, plus you will end up taking extra SM classes that related to which shows you SM for class credit and one-on-one time. You are required to take a lot of design courses and the level one courses for every section of theatre. They encourage well rounded education, but the emphasis is in theatre and your career as opposed to too many general education courses. All of my credits transferred in, which put me ahead of the crowd here.
As a matter of fact...I'm going to PM you more details so I don't crowd up the boards.