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The Green Room / Re: How to recover from mistakes
« on: Apr 11, 2011, 12:19 pm »
Sometimes there is no recovery for certain people - they can screw up but you can't - I made one (granted huge and vital) mistake early in my career while, due to an emergency situation w the SM, running a show I had never seen for the first time, with no practice session, and also running sound on a system I had never used before - and even now, some 30 years later, the actor has never, ever forgiven me for this. Now, they dropped lines, messed up blocking, forgot things - that's all ok. But mine wasn't. I think sometimes people forget that we are human too.
AND - different styles of SMing work for different people - I just did a 2-hander, one of the actors needed a lot of coddling and hands-on and explanations, the other wanted all one-word answers. Needless to say, one of them thinks I am the best SM since sliced bread and the other doesn't want to work w me. How do you make it right for both of them? You can't. As Matthew said, developing a thick skin is essential. But there are some things you may have no control over and there is no "win" so you have to just take a deep breath and move on.
AND - different styles of SMing work for different people - I just did a 2-hander, one of the actors needed a lot of coddling and hands-on and explanations, the other wanted all one-word answers. Needless to say, one of them thinks I am the best SM since sliced bread and the other doesn't want to work w me. How do you make it right for both of them? You can't. As Matthew said, developing a thick skin is essential. But there are some things you may have no control over and there is no "win" so you have to just take a deep breath and move on.