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Employment / Re: Being a Reference
« on: Mar 14, 2013, 08:23 pm »
Be honest from the start.
I have created rules for myself – I need to work with someone on multiple shows or at least six months. This blocks a lot of casual references. The only time I will give a reference after one show is for interns.
If I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference on someone, and they ask – just be honest and quick, saying “I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference based upon our work together.” You can put it as softly as you want – but that should be the gist of it.
If someone lists me as a reference, and I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference, the standard (and I think legal) thing to do is just confirm dates of employment and position. If they ask any other specific questions, you can say simply, “I don’t feel comfortable commenting on their work.” If you are not enthusiastically giving a recommendation, it’s understood they probably should not be hired. (Also, a little note – probably better to give recommendations over the phone then email . . . )
If I end up getting a call about someone, and I am not sure if they are right for the job, especially if it is a younger stage manager, I will ask about the position. I try to figure out what they are looking for, so I can try to see if the person asking for the reference, in my opinion, has the right stuff for the job. I find that although sometimes I am not able to offer an enthusiastic recommendation, I am able to give a weighted one.
I have created rules for myself – I need to work with someone on multiple shows or at least six months. This blocks a lot of casual references. The only time I will give a reference after one show is for interns.
If I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference on someone, and they ask – just be honest and quick, saying “I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference based upon our work together.” You can put it as softly as you want – but that should be the gist of it.
If someone lists me as a reference, and I don’t feel comfortable giving a reference, the standard (and I think legal) thing to do is just confirm dates of employment and position. If they ask any other specific questions, you can say simply, “I don’t feel comfortable commenting on their work.” If you are not enthusiastically giving a recommendation, it’s understood they probably should not be hired. (Also, a little note – probably better to give recommendations over the phone then email . . . )
If I end up getting a call about someone, and I am not sure if they are right for the job, especially if it is a younger stage manager, I will ask about the position. I try to figure out what they are looking for, so I can try to see if the person asking for the reference, in my opinion, has the right stuff for the job. I find that although sometimes I am not able to offer an enthusiastic recommendation, I am able to give a weighted one.

You get to interview them, as much as they get to interview you . . . and some jobs I thought I would have hated at the start of the interview process, I actually got excited about. (And we all know the jobs that were exciting at the start that turned out bad . . . )