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Students and Novice Stage Managers / Re: Dear Abby: Torn between two majors
« on: Apr 23, 2009, 11:19 am »
My first question is who is paying the bill - if they are, then you might offer a suggestion of a computer major with a theatre minor - the importance of a theatre degree is the hands-on part of working actual shows, and as long as you're willing to work the shows then the fact that your piece of paper says 'minor' shouldn't interfere with your employment options after college - you can show that you were working on the shows and being involved. This would work as a compromise for your parents - they are seeing you get the 'real' degree, and you can say that at theatre minor is to help with your creative thinking processes.
Now, if you're paying for your schooling and not your parents - then its up to you. Your parents can not dictate what you're going to pay for, any more than they can dictate what you do with your life. Now, that's not meant to be as negative as it probably sounds, but so many parents want to force their kids into certain paths, and won't see what their kids are really skilled at and let them be what they are actually talented at. My mother forbad me from getting a degree in theatre, since she said that I would not leave college with marketable job skills. Well, I got a degree in theatre, and have worked in theatre for 13 years now (since graduating). My mother now sees the opportunities that theatre has given me and thinks I've grown wonderfully as a person because of my choices.
-Centaura
Now, if you're paying for your schooling and not your parents - then its up to you. Your parents can not dictate what you're going to pay for, any more than they can dictate what you do with your life. Now, that's not meant to be as negative as it probably sounds, but so many parents want to force their kids into certain paths, and won't see what their kids are really skilled at and let them be what they are actually talented at. My mother forbad me from getting a degree in theatre, since she said that I would not leave college with marketable job skills. Well, I got a degree in theatre, and have worked in theatre for 13 years now (since graduating). My mother now sees the opportunities that theatre has given me and thinks I've grown wonderfully as a person because of my choices.
-Centaura
