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The Hardline / Re: Director Giving Notes
« on: May 24, 2014, 06:24 pm »
The director is welcome to give notes *through the stage manager* until time immemorial. On the other hand, changes in the show and major alterations (specifically those that affect cues and blocking) require additional rehearsal, and subsequent payment for time to rehearse and re-tech those moments. That is a discussion you need to have with the producer. No question that many shows could benefit from improvements after opening, but it isn't something done on the fly. So you should let the producer know that the director is making the kinds of changes that require additional time, and let them tell her that the show needs to be locked.

The other problem, however, is you choosing which notes to give. That part is not ok. When you say "offensive" what do you mean? Can you offer a specific? And - the key here is to figure out the intent of the note so you understand what she's trying to get at. That is the note to give. You can soften the blow and joke about it, you can show them how it's being solved, but refusing to deliver them is a whole other deal. Again, you can take the offensive notes to the producer and explain your concerns. (As I was typing this, Matthew showed a perfect example of how to deal with it.)

Does she email them, call them in, hand you hard copy? You can forward emails with the hedder "from the director", cut up the hard copy and place on their tables, etc - so you don't merge her notes with yours at all. But I also remember hearing how Charles Nelson Reilly papered his dressing room walls with notes he promptly ignored.

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Job Postings / Re: AEA-Assistant Stage Manager Needed
« on: May 19, 2014, 04:34 pm »
can you clarify the timeline? Your post says the contract runs Aug 2 - Aug 3.

Thanks


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Yes, read the info in the linked thread But, especially as the higher ups were in the house, it is vital for them to know you will give an honest report that they can depend on, so if there are problems they can know they are being informed, and solved / handled responsibly.

And yes, your own screw-ups count as being worth mention. It means you saw them, you acknowledged them, and you have fixed them. And that you are human. And honest. And are capable of having a sense of humor and moving on with things, not getting stuck.


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(I don't recall all the details of our show, just the particular challenges like the mimosas - if I think of anything else that might help you, I will share)

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Alternative dips like hummus aside, there are a ton of non-dairy /fake sour cream style things on the market. Add appropriate flavor and voilá.

Amusingly, our lead was allergic to all citrus, so we juiced orange peppers to make the mimosas. And - instead of 3 dips you can use something like peanuts to pour on someone's head.

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Job Postings / Grand Park (Los Angeles) Events Manager
« on: May 08, 2014, 01:21 pm »
http://grandparkla.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Events-Manager1.pdf

For the new outdoor venue downtown, at City Hall.

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Employment / MOVED: Palm Springs Follies
« on: May 07, 2014, 02:00 pm »
This topic has been moved to The Hardline.

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The Green Room / Re: useful websites for life
« on: May 06, 2014, 11:53 pm »
Love this - how very "Desk Set"!

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Self-Promotion / Re: New Musical
« on: May 02, 2014, 11:27 pm »
Have a blast! How fun - and such a great team of SMs in Ashland, several of whom are on this website!

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Have you spoken with your professors about this? Being bullied is never ok, and their behavior needs to be adjusted.

But -  you say you have dealt with this a lot:

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When it comes to school, I have always been put in a position where I have to deal with being put down by my peers constantly

Have you asked help/input from counselors or from good friends to explore your own part in this, what you might be doing to invite these kinds of interactions?

Sincerely wishing you good luck. This is a difficult place to be, one that requires stamina and willingness to learn a tough lesson - whether that lesson is dealing successfully with bullies or to stop attracting them. No matter which choices you make - leaving the school or staying - use this challenge as an opportunity to grow as an adult and as a human being.






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The Green Room / Re: Was I out of Line?
« on: Apr 27, 2014, 03:13 am »
salbano - this is not meant to  push buttons nor cause offense - or defensiveness - just a notion to drop your way. I looked over your post history and noticed there is a tendency to go to that place. A lot. I get the feeling you are a terrific detail person, but maybe there are some people skills needed.

May I humbly suggest, practice just listening. Don't make any comments of any kind. Do your homework and prep, but practice not reacting to anything. Before you say anything out loud, try counting to 10, putting yourself in the other person's shoes and saying it to yourself three times first.

I've been there - as a young stage manager I knew a great deal about how things were "supposed" to go, but had to learn how to listen to the room before saying anything. You sound like you are on your way to being terrific and may want to make those few adjustments to be even better.

This is a great opportunity to take advantage of this chance to experiment with behavior and with new ways of doing things. Why don't you give it a shot?

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The Green Room / Re: Was I out of Line?
« on: Apr 22, 2014, 01:11 am »
One of the hardest things for those with sharp tongues is learning to not use them. Our job includes keeping our traps shut. Especially with things that don't concern us.

You say you have a sarcastic bent; these students don't know that, and especially with improv, where they are learning to be completely in the moment, they can easily misinterpret what they hear and take it personally.

Unless there is dire need, like a safety concern, there is no reason to interrupt for any reason with what is actually directorial and not your job.

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The Hardline / Re: AEA ASM & EMC
« on: Apr 20, 2014, 02:35 pm »
hmm - interesting - RuthNY, I have proposed the same to Entry to Equity - and hopefully we will have a meeting soon, since there seems to be confusion about whether or not someone in an ASM position is entitled to earn EMC points in the first place.

But I used to work a lot in an LOA/LORT D space where the nonAEA ASM got those points. Apologies if I gave misinformation, as I was not a part of the discussion w AEA determining why/how that nonEq person got them. I know getting those points happens in SPT all the time.

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The Hardline / Re: AEA ASM & EMC
« on: Apr 18, 2014, 12:05 pm »
I assume you are working at a LORT level C or D (or LOA), where an AEA ASM is not required, and you are being their non-AEA ASM, right? My understanding is, if they are not required to have an AEA ASM your weeks should count.

But this whole situation seems odd. The theater is saving money by taking advantage of/abusing the system. The SM intern or the PA who was in the room for rehearsals should have been the person transitioning to the show, as they are acting as a de facto non-AEA ASM to that point, whereas you are acting as the deck manager once the run starts.




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