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Stage Management: Plays & Musicals / Re: Tense Director During Tech
« on: Feb 04, 2007, 10:43 am »
It sounds like you're handling this director wonderfully.
Aside from smSam's great answer, I have 2cents to add:
first cent: When I deal with Eeyore directors, I try to take an extra moment when things go right and when they are happy to point out to them that they are happy. Just one extra smile can mitigate a lot of griping over the course of a day. For example, when we're going over notes after a rehearsal, the director might pick apart dozens of things that weren't perfect, but maybe they mention that the light fade after the Act II monologue was perfectly called. I would just take a second to let everyone enjoy this success by saying "It perfectly timed and really gave me goosebumps" or "Yes - the moment was just right today." And try to get the director to smile, too. Or at least stop whining for a second. Something to point out the good moments too - to remind the director that they do happen.
second cent: A director who is perfectionistic and demanding can wear on the cast and especially crew quickly. And sometimes people can begin feeling unappreciated, frustrated, and ultimately hostile. Only a couple of unfortunate times, a director has been so bad that a crew sort of stops making effort to make the show the best it can be. Instead, people just do what they need to do. It's a defeatist attitude where it feels like no matter how much effort you pour into the show, the director will still complain, so why bother? As SM, when I feel this vibe developing, I start paying extra attention to everyone's efforts and thanking them often for their great work. I become the cheerleader and try to keep people's hearts invested in the show. I acknowledge that the director is difficult and demanding, but always support the director and remind everyone that we are all trying to get the show to be the very best.
Aside from smSam's great answer, I have 2cents to add:
first cent: When I deal with Eeyore directors, I try to take an extra moment when things go right and when they are happy to point out to them that they are happy. Just one extra smile can mitigate a lot of griping over the course of a day. For example, when we're going over notes after a rehearsal, the director might pick apart dozens of things that weren't perfect, but maybe they mention that the light fade after the Act II monologue was perfectly called. I would just take a second to let everyone enjoy this success by saying "It perfectly timed and really gave me goosebumps" or "Yes - the moment was just right today." And try to get the director to smile, too. Or at least stop whining for a second. Something to point out the good moments too - to remind the director that they do happen.
second cent: A director who is perfectionistic and demanding can wear on the cast and especially crew quickly. And sometimes people can begin feeling unappreciated, frustrated, and ultimately hostile. Only a couple of unfortunate times, a director has been so bad that a crew sort of stops making effort to make the show the best it can be. Instead, people just do what they need to do. It's a defeatist attitude where it feels like no matter how much effort you pour into the show, the director will still complain, so why bother? As SM, when I feel this vibe developing, I start paying extra attention to everyone's efforts and thanking them often for their great work. I become the cheerleader and try to keep people's hearts invested in the show. I acknowledge that the director is difficult and demanding, but always support the director and remind everyone that we are all trying to get the show to be the very best.
