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« on: Dec 06, 2007, 07:18 am »
I have a bit of a situation on my current show, and I'm slightly at a loss to know where to go next. In a nutshell, I have an actor in his early to mid 40s who has developed a relationship with an actress who has just turned 21. The fact that the actor in question is married doesn't really concern me - his relationship with his wife is entirely their business - but I am extremely worried about the girl, who is fresh out of drama school and is obviously completely under this guy's spell. The whole thing feels to me like he has taken advantage of her - he's a very experienced actor with a lot of knowledge to impart, as well as being the worst flirt I have ever met, and is in a senior position to her with the company - and much as it's a horrible word, it seems predatory to me. I'm worried that the whole thing will turn ugly and she'll have a complete meltdown, jeopardizing not only her sanity but the show - we have no understudies and 10 weeks left to run. My problem is that I can't really step in until the show becomes affected, but I feel very uncomfortable standing on the sidelines and watching; my sister is the same age as the girl, and if it was her I would be out for blood. The director is aware of the situation, and has already ripped the guy to shreds about it, but it's had no effect. I've spoken to one other cast member about it - she's a girl who I trust completely - but she couldn't really say much except that there is definitely something going on, and that she doesn't like the attitude the actor has towards women, from what she's gathered in the dressing room. I'm not a big fan of intra-cast relationships anyway, but this one just has the feeling about it that it could all turn very, very pear-shaped extremely quickly. Anybody have any suggestions about what I could do to try and ease my mind?