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The Green Room / Re: Achieving a Professional Understanding
« on: May 06, 2011, 11:46 pm »
My best friend is an actor. It was an instantaneous friendship when we met on a show a few years ago. I don't remember now if it was his idea or mine, but we came up with the concept of "Friend Renee" and "SM Renee" (and Actor BFF/Friend BFF) to establish who we were talking to. We've gotten so good at it now that we can flip on a dime as to whether we're engaged in a conversation as SM and actor or as two friends. I don't treat him any differently than I do any other actor. Others are generally aware that he and I are close, but there's definitely no favoritism exhibited. Over the years I've had a few other actors who I'm friendly with adopt the same sort of routine. It's a careful balancing act, but it is possible to be a friend and an SM, and it can be extremely rewarding when you're able to master it.