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Students and Novice Stage Managers / Re: Student Stage Manager's Challenge #4: When being an SM and a friend collide
« on: Nov 03, 2008, 05:39 pm »
I agree with most everything loebtmc said which a minor adjustment. Especially in an education setting where you do not have the ultimate say, we have been taught not to say "yes" but instead say "I'll look into that". That way they are satisfied they have been heard and the problem is being looked at. That way you have time to find a solution that works for everyone and you do not have to take your words back which can end in more problems than you started with. Just another look at the situation.
The only other lesson that should be pulled is to always ask follow up questions. Rather than immediately saying "no" because of the issue of light bleed (I assume that would have been the problem) I would have immediately asked "what is the trouble?" and then offered up other solutions or gave the "I'll look into that" response to buy me time to seek out a solution. When an actor or crew member demands something like that they feel that is their best solution. That is usually not the case and they do not think to offer up the problem for the SM to provide a solution.
Unfortunately everyone thinks they know what is best. As the SM it is always smart to ask yourself "What is Eating Gilbert Grape?" That means realize that everything that comes out of someone else's mouth should not be taken at face value. Find out what the real problem is before responding and the situation will most likely work out (at least to some degree). In your case, the actor tells you they are going to have a light you can't let them have. The real problem is they can't see, but if you ask why they need the light you find out they can't see in the blackout and the solution is glow tape and an ASM at the exit.
The only other lesson that should be pulled is to always ask follow up questions. Rather than immediately saying "no" because of the issue of light bleed (I assume that would have been the problem) I would have immediately asked "what is the trouble?" and then offered up other solutions or gave the "I'll look into that" response to buy me time to seek out a solution. When an actor or crew member demands something like that they feel that is their best solution. That is usually not the case and they do not think to offer up the problem for the SM to provide a solution.
Unfortunately everyone thinks they know what is best. As the SM it is always smart to ask yourself "What is Eating Gilbert Grape?" That means realize that everything that comes out of someone else's mouth should not be taken at face value. Find out what the real problem is before responding and the situation will most likely work out (at least to some degree). In your case, the actor tells you they are going to have a light you can't let them have. The real problem is they can't see, but if you ask why they need the light you find out they can't see in the blackout and the solution is glow tape and an ASM at the exit.