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Students and Novice Stage Managers / Re: Dealing with rude emails
« on: Mar 30, 2012, 09:37 am »
I've had several issues like this regarding our resident faculty costume designer. I realize how frustrating it can be, but I have found it best to simply apologize for any inconvenience and assure them that it will never happen again. The rudeness, unfortunately, cannot be taken back, but as stage manager, you can take the high road and return the rudeness with kindness.
It's best, in my experience, to keep the response short and simple, and with such a tone that cannot be read as angry or any other emotion.
Because it is a faculty member, I would suggest going to the head of the department and reporting it. I am lucky in the fact that our department is small and pretty well-knit, but reporting this type of behavior from a faculty member is important. The lines between student and professor become kind of blurred during show time, especially with a student stage manager, but it doesn't change that they are your professor during normal school hours, and they are not permitted to behave as such.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
It's best, in my experience, to keep the response short and simple, and with such a tone that cannot be read as angry or any other emotion.
Because it is a faculty member, I would suggest going to the head of the department and reporting it. I am lucky in the fact that our department is small and pretty well-knit, but reporting this type of behavior from a faculty member is important. The lines between student and professor become kind of blurred during show time, especially with a student stage manager, but it doesn't change that they are your professor during normal school hours, and they are not permitted to behave as such.
Good luck, I hope everything works out.
