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Students and Novice Stage Managers / Re: Just graduated and need advice terribly
« on: Jul 02, 2009, 02:52 pm »
Currently, the economy sucks...we all know that - so the job market is a little slow...but that's old news. Apply everywhere, regardless if you think you would actually take the job or if they would actually hire you - leave the hiring decision to them. You also have to be willing to go where the job is, especially now. I haven't been to grad school but, I do know that some people in this economy have gone straight into grad school after college because the hope is that once they get out of grad school the economy will be better.
And it's ok to be lost and not know exactly where you are going. That is actually quite common in this industry. Eventually, that feeling will subside and then it will return, and then you will feel lost again. It is a cycle of constantly re-figuring it out. My first year out of college was the hardest - I can't speak for everyone else. It was hard because I learned that a lot of things that I learned in school really wasn't true after all and I had to relearn certain aspects of the industry. It was also hard because I too felt lost and completely adrift. That's ok. Just keep pushing yourself and you'll figure it out. I know everyone says you'll figure it out and that's really annoying, but it's the truth. While you are finding out exactly where you want to be and so on, don't pigeon hole yourself and remember to allow yourself to switch plans. As SM's we LOVE to know what's happening months from now in our lives and unfortunately that's not always possible. And sometimes when you make plans and finally get there, you realize this is the wrong plan and so you come up with a new one. Flexibility and amazing friends who will bolster you up when you are having the hardest times are key.
You'll find your way - we all did.
And it's ok to be lost and not know exactly where you are going. That is actually quite common in this industry. Eventually, that feeling will subside and then it will return, and then you will feel lost again. It is a cycle of constantly re-figuring it out. My first year out of college was the hardest - I can't speak for everyone else. It was hard because I learned that a lot of things that I learned in school really wasn't true after all and I had to relearn certain aspects of the industry. It was also hard because I too felt lost and completely adrift. That's ok. Just keep pushing yourself and you'll figure it out. I know everyone says you'll figure it out and that's really annoying, but it's the truth. While you are finding out exactly where you want to be and so on, don't pigeon hole yourself and remember to allow yourself to switch plans. As SM's we LOVE to know what's happening months from now in our lives and unfortunately that's not always possible. And sometimes when you make plans and finally get there, you realize this is the wrong plan and so you come up with a new one. Flexibility and amazing friends who will bolster you up when you are having the hardest times are key.
You'll find your way - we all did.