I second Tom Kelley's book. He was one of my advisors in school, and yes, we had to read his book, but I look back at it all the time. There's samples of paperwork, etc. in there and he gives you guidelines with enough room to be able to come up with your own style.
I just have to put this in, because these books that aren't "stage management" but if you come across them, I wouldn't pass them by:
Design and Stage Lighting, by Parker Wolf
Lighting Design by Richard Pilbrow