Thanks everyone for the input. I'm kind of in a weird place with this particular theatre. Some good ol' summer stock! After opening night, the directors leave and I'm the only one left. There isn't and Assistant Director. I don't even have an assistant! (Anyone else up for doing Millie without one because that will be fun for me later!) The Artistic Director, who doesn't necessarily know all of the rehearsal discoveries that I do, simply feels that it is never a stage managers job to give notes. I don't want to argue with her or anything like that. So I'm simply trying to convey to her that that's kinda my job. There is no one else to do it. So, she does it. Which isn't effective. The actors don't have a relationship with her and don't seem to pay much attention during notes. And then when they don't take the notes, somehow it's my fault. When I interviewed she stated that although it's non-union, she likes to use union standards (except for the assistant thing, obviously) so I thought maybe this was a good way to go about it. Do any rulebooks state that the SM gives notes after opening?
It's only a four month gig, but I do want these shows to be the best that they can be. And I think that me being prepared for this conversation is the first step.
Thanks,
Deb