If you can't do college, I suggest to you to get on ArtSearch, etc, and start looking at summer positions and internships. Four years of interning, etc, is going to count for as much or more as a degree, and will put you out in the professional world with lots of great experience. I went to the only school in my state that had a BFA in Stage Management, and took tons of classes, etc, but it still didn't prepare for everything once you get "out there"!
You don't say why you can't go to college, though. If it's an issue of relocation or anything like that, you might have a problem.