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« on: Nov 06, 2006, 10:42 pm »
Wow.
There is a lot issues your brought up; lots of broad, emotional, and comlicated issues and emotions. My first bit of advice is talk to other stage managers you work with or who work in the area. I know this can be hard, since often we work singularly and then we are competition for jobs with the other stage managers. But, I think once you start talking to other SMs, expecially those who are in the same job market as you will help bring things in perspective. Also, if they know you and your work style, they maybe able to offer some specific advice.
Here's my advice . . . take it or leave it . . . and if you do take, take it with a grain salt. You don't know me, and I don't know you . . . but it seems like you are looking for some advice . . .
First, don't assume you will be happy and fulfilled when you have a specific job - there will always be something wanting and unfulfilled. It’s an attainable goal, but it will here’s the thing, it will always going to be some element of chance and luck – that’s this business. There is no direct path to advancement. (Unlike my brother who graduated, got a job, a company car, business cards, and a very clear path for advancement.)
You mention that you have worked for 15 years and no DIRECTORS know you name; forget directors – in the end you need to impress production managers – production managers are always going to be one to hire you, and if you impress the production manager, he or she will get you back in the theatre. (Especially if you are eyeing yourself for a resident stage management position.) In the end, if you are a resident stage manager, you are going to be an extension of production management.
This business is built on rejection – there were times I was sending out 10-20 resumes a week; either applying to specific jobs, blind resume sends, or just sending my resume to stage managers just to make a connection. My two longest gigs, 3 years each, came from a blind resume send to a theatre half-way across the nation.
You ask a very important question . . . is it you? Is there something about you that makes you not hirable? Who knows? Talk to people . . . someone has to know why? Maybe there are areas in stage management you need to improve . . . we all do; hell, I know part of my day off today was to make a list of 5 things I want to do improve my style of stage management. This is where it is hard to give a person advice on how to improve themselves . . . I know nothing about you. When I felt like I hit a ceiling and had NO idea of how to make the next move, I chose to grad school – 3 years focusing on my job, making connections at a level I never thought I would make, and 3 years IMPROVING myself. I know nothing about you to know if this is the right move for you, but if you have doubts about the skills you posses to be competitive in the job market you are in.
As far as balancing a day job and a show, there have been some recent posts about this – do a quick look around.
This career is frustrating at times, even we have the job, and when you have to work so hard to FIND a gig, it just makes it hard. If stage management is something you truly love – and in some ways, it is a calling - then you will do everything you can to make it work and make it work on your own terms.
If you just need someone to talk to, send me a private message, and this conversation can continue.