Wow! Yeah, I can so relate to that right now.
I have an ASM giving cues like that on the nights she can be there (3/4 shows per week).
Last night the cast finall got the type of notes I have been expecting for weeks. Last night the director allowed a veteran in the theatre to watch the dress rehearsal and take notes. We needed those a week ago. She was even given permission to overwrite the director's decisions with regard to blocking and how a scene should be played. She did so tactfully, but it was nice to see. Some of the other techies and I have been talking about future shows. I am hoping to get them accustomed to this quickly. This means even considering directing a show and use an SM that I've trained to run backstage.
Of course, I have at least a year to wait on that bid. The next show I wanted to work on has an "traditional SM" for this theatre already hired. The director (who is current sound op) is cosidering using me in spite of that and either crediting me under a different title or just letting me do it for the experience and then I can do lights for the show as well. I'm not sure how that will work out, but I have my fingers crossed. She is currently going back for a second bachelor's in Theatre Arts at one of my favorite universities--though not the one I ended up graduating from--so she knows what I have been taught and how well it can work and how useful a good SM is to a director. Anyway,
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