Note: I'm not sure where this should go on the boards. Moderators, please help me out.
I'm a young SM (but not really new), and I'm basically making a go at free lancing. So, I just started at a new theatre, with a new team of SMs. Decent size musical, team of 4 SMs. 2 residents, and then the 2 newbies. We're in previews now (we survived tech, whew!). I'm one of the newbies--still learning the place, and the town as a matter of fact--but so is the other newbie. We're deck SMs, and one of the resident SMs basically oversees us. She's the final word, and she did all the shift plot work.
Anyway, in my last job, it really hit home with me that I can only be as good as the team that supports me. It's very important to me that a team work well together and all get along. I was trained that way. Well, it's just not happening here.
It's little things, almost petty--like leaving me out of conversations, and double checking my work--but my instincts are just crackling with disdain. I trust my instincts, and they're telling me that the other two SMs on deck don't want to play nice in the sand box! I just don't feel respected or supported, let alone part of the team. And I can't figure out if I did or said something offensive, or if it is a them thing. They seem to get along swimmingly--which I know is only making me feel worse. It's all rather distressing.
Part of this post is venting, but I would really appreciate advice about the situation. How do you all handle lousy team work? or how do work towards improving it?