Hi wam_sm,
It sounds like you want a BA program instead of a more specialized degree - so that would take out schools that have an intensive, conservatory-style approach, and leave programs that offer a general theater arts degree with open options for further study. I went to UCLA, which is almost a conservatory for actors, but has a very open program for management, design and tech, and offers a cool theory/history component for all undergrads. I pretty much built my own training process out of department shows, local internships and professional work that fit around my classes. Feel free to PM me for more details on the program.
Best of luck in your search!