I can speak for Adelphi!
I'm part of the class of '08 in the design tech department and even with all the ups and downs I've faced here, I'm glad I didn't go anywhere else. In my four years here the entire department has changed (some for the better, some changes I won't see) the BIGGEST draw is that our new performing arts center will open in fall of 2008, and it's going to be gorgeous. There will be at least a half dozen new positions in the department and for the first time ever, the performing arts of tech acting and dance will all be together in the same building.
The staff and faculty here are amazing professionals who I feel blessed to have worked with the last few years of my life and know will continue to be contacts in the future. It's a program that's grown SO much since I've began here (when I started there was about 15 people in the department, we're now at nearly 30 with the largest graduating class of 9 this year
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The campus is gorgeous, and you're only a 45min ride from Manhattan.
As far as Stage Management goes it does leave some things to be desired, currently in the curriculum there is only one SM class that is required for all acting and tech majors, but they bring in an AEA stage manager to teach it and mentor you if you desire. I've had a lot of experience doing campus shows and through the faculty have gotten all my professional work to date.
Outside of the theater department there is plenty to keep your mind sharp, I'm part of the Honors college and it has been great and challenging.
If you have any other questions, let me know or email me at nomierae AT gmail DOT com